Timing is everything!
This quote jumped out at me today... makes PERFECT sense to me now. This past year has obviously been a roller coaster ride for me in all aspects of my life, but for the most part, my relationships...
The past week and a half has been rough, once again George and I have called it quits. We have given it our all, this time I think we have realized we are not meant for one another. We see things so differently in what we believe a relationship really is. Sadly there is resentment on both sides for many things, honestly I think we both stayed for the wrong reasons. However I am so thankful for my life with him, he has taught me a lot about myself and what it is I want and hope he feels the same.
There was something he would say to me often that has stuck in my head over the years, he would say to me while watching a romantic movie "Wouldn't it be great to love someone that much?"
He was right, yes George, it would! I don't know if we ever had that kind of love for each other...
But that's what love should feel like with the person you are meant to be with forever! Right?
I have heard so many times from so many people say to me that relationships are tough, (agreed) and that you lose that exciting feeling of butterflies and being in love after so long...
I say "BULLSHIT"
I believe there is that fairytale love out there, not saying everyday will always be perfect, but saying you CAN be in love forever with the right person, and you can have that exciting butterflies in your stomach feeling if that's what you want, you just gotta remember what you both desire and don't forget to tell them how lucky you are to have them in your life. Don't take them for granted, show them daily how much you love them, appreciate each other, be kind hearted and gentle along the way.
This is what I have learned from my failed relationships....